it doesnt matter...

it doesnt matter how long i am in dubai but what the years have made me, the way I am..

and now, im excited and up for a new challenge..

to dubai, we will meet again...
to jeddah, i miss mekah...
to malaysia, lets be friend...

=) ad from the dubai international airport lounge (do i spell this correctly?)

ps/- to friends in dubai, it was an honour to be part of malaysian community, it was an emotional farewell, and hope we meet again back in "bumi bertuah..."

its amazing-

this space

Will be updated with super cool burj khalifah pictures...

Lets do basic photography experiment!!!

farewell note? =)

MH to passengers is just a flight code
MH to HQ, is Malaysian Hospitality
MH to me is the chapter I shared with a small UN Family
Here, with colleague, sir and madam..

Yes
We fight, we tease, irritates and annoys each other
We laughed, and share passion and stress together
Haha...
like any other families, we do not keep at heart
all words are just words, no apology needed..
Cos' everything is back to normal after six

Believe me, this is not goodbye, but a start to a new beginning..
To beautiful people, I hope we meet again in the next chapter…
To beautiful time, I hope it will be remembered...

I will be missing everything here,
Beautiful people, "scenes" and time together

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ps/ - any comment before the farewell?

Sharing

A pencil maker told the pencil 5 important lessons:

1.) Everything you do will always leave a mark

2.) You can always correct the mistakes you make

3.) What is important is what is inside of you

4.) In life, you will undergo painful sharpenings which will make you a better person

5.) To be the best pencil. you must allow yourself to be held and guided by the hand that holds you

Go ahead, there is no red sign

Its amazing to know how GPRS GPS helps drivers on road when the device actually TELLS human being where to go, which road to take and where the road heads to..

I asked the salesperson to demo and was amused by verbal instruction directing driver to turn right, make u-turn and calculating distance and estimated arrival time with the current speed....

Out of curiosity, I asked "What happen if there is a traffic light and its red, will the device ask me to stop?"

The salesperson smiled and trying to look for the right words and answered

"Sir, the device will not tell you to stop...But will you go when you see red?"

I laughed...something to ponder?

ps/- maybe that work the same in relationship...not to hurt others, eventhough the person did not stop you to do so... =)

Ugly Betty

The chance to see a girl’s ugly side is a privilege, especially on the first meet because you have seen the worst before you see the nice and sweet side of her. That way, you learn to appreciate and accept the way she is…

I had the chance to see a girl’s ugly side, so she claimed…
Well, the beauty part is she is full of philosophy and has her answer to everything…A good stranger to share your thoughts and gossiping…

Looking back

First,I thought she is a “HE” and my direct question “Are you a GAY?” No offend to gays but I prefer to be careful. Added to that, I have an assumption it was a guy by your name…Sorry! =P

Is this for real, or any of my friend is playing a joke…The first day we chat was when I at MAS KL for a meeting…and she said her office is nearby MH Office…I like, are you for real…Hahaha
Well, that all I can write now…Will add into the list when I remember anything

Ps/- im so free in the office…BORED!

Airplane

Can we pretend that airplanes
In the night sky
Are like shooting stars
I could really use a wish right now (wish right now, wish right now)
Can we pretend that airplanes
In the night sky
Are like shooting stars
I could really use a wish right now (wish right now, wish right now)


Yeah
I could use a dream or a genie or a wish
To go back to a place much simpler than this
Cause after all the partyin' and smashin' and crashin'
And all the glitz and the glam and the fashion
And all the pandemonium and all the madness
There comes a time where you fade to the blackness
And when you're staring at that phone in your lap
And you hoping but them people never call you back
But that's just how the story unfolds
You get another hand soon after you fold
And when your plans unravel
And they sayin' what would you wish for
If you had one chance
So airplane airplane sorry I'm late
I'm on my way so don't close that gate
If I don't make that then I'll switch my flight
And I'll be right back at it by the end of the night


Can we pretend that airplanes
In the night sky
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When they asked and my answer was...

Years ago when my teacher asked....

a. What is your ambitious?
I said, engineer, businessman and architect...It is obvious choice for a 12 years old,the famous choice that day was doctors, or architect, pilot, engineer, teacher, policeman, firefighter...and blablabla..
I wonder why doctor or any medic profession was not in the list...But then i figured out thatI cant stand listening to patients experience in operation theater/medical check up and to imagine how human bodies looks like, how painfull it is...I always run away from the conversation...Hahaha

b. Which subject do you like most?
I said, the easiest to score...I like maths but i always make careless mistake..
My next choice is English because I like cartoons! hahaha

Years ago i made a promise with a friend that i will not be in relationship untili get my first degree...And i had failed tremendously...Hahaha

ps/ - Looking back, i cant believe i was that innocent..hahaha

Pronto

Relationship to many Asia families always involve family member, one to get blessing from parents or even siblings...Maybe because we are very family oriented, the closeness is untill extended family when relatives usually meet during festive.

This topic came in after a story was publish http://www.hmetro.com.my/myMetro/articles/Merajukjodohdihalang/Article

I thought this only happen in movies...guess I was wrong

ps/- buat apa lah merajuk lama-lama..

half fiction

the evening was spent with an adorable girl, a friend, maybe? =P naaah, she is a good friend, emo'ish and smart...

she sent me a text asking if i will be free at night..

"where to," i asked...

"anywhere....a dinner maybe?"

"any occasion?"

"you are leaving...lets go out together before you leave..."

i left the office at 6, picked her from office and drove to mirdif city centre...
we settled at the foodcourt as strategic place to stay longer =) without psychologically be chasing away...

we talked almost about everything, her friends, at workplace, FOOTBALL, and SHOPPING...and finally to the first day we met...it was awkward that time, we were introduced by a friend and didnt talk much....but after the meeting, i found her blog and added her into my ym list....

we finally have to leave at 11 when the shops are closing...i offered to drive her home but she wanted to take taxi...walked her to the taxi stand and right before she went into the taxi she looked at me and said...

"dubai will not be the same without you here...i love you..."


ps/- so which is the fiction part?hahaha

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hany,

abang ad call to say sorry but i think u were sleeping

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comel tak?

Comelkan saya? =P

ps/ - suka dengan baby girl ni...

bafana bafana

good luck to bafana team and south africa for the world cup 2010.

hosting one of the world most famous game is an honour to the land, people and the region. hopefully the investment and hard work pays...

once again, enjoy world class football..

bafana bafana!!! =P

ps/- bafana is the south africa national team nickname....hahaha friends in south africa told me that! =)

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what happened last night was....

i was with 2 new friends who are here for a short training, both are from the ministry of federal territories and welfare (i think!)....

we went to the naif street cos they wanted to buy some "kain" for "raya" =) and they end up with few "sifons" that cost half the price in kl....and few shawls...

then we headed to jumeira walk to have dinner.....and while waiting the food, one of them asked a very random question...

"where is your girlfriend..."

ps/- need to position myself in the singles quadrant...hahaha

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The question above was left without an answer and i cant remember how that lead to a topic on 2 relationship terms created by the europeans...and we have concluded that:

a. open relationship is a term for couple who live together BUT they are free to date and see other people...there is no commitment involve, no string attach. we think reason why a guy/girl propose to be in an open relationship is because they cant be single and need someone as their social escort....

b. domestic partnership is unique, we were confused and first thought it is similar to marriage....BUT then we agreed that domestic partnership is couple who is in pre-marriage relationship....

So guys, please know and understand the word before you put anything on your social media profile...please do not make yourself look stupid in the virtual world

=)

ps/ - im getting good in pr.....hahaha

beauty

besides, beautiful girls...

i can see,
beautiful lies
beautiful jealousy
beautiful ignorance

though
the ugly come into the picture when...
someone will get hurt..

ps/- good, the question was straight to the point =)

short note

Allow me to quote a short note found on the web...

I am sorryI didn't meant to be like this
you don't have to ask my permission to go anywhere
I just want to know where did you go
I didn't meant to hurt you I'm just worried about you
because I love u......
very,very,very much....

I'm sorryto be like this coz I know is my fault
but now it was different we are not close as before so ......
damn... I miss you am I too cruel in loving u what can I do
damn I don't wanna to loose you
coz I love u
if you feel I am too cruel for you just leave me....but I just want you to know....
that I love u and I never gonna leave u whatever you have done to me...
coz I love uvery,very,very...... much

ps/- the girl must be lucky

blocked

I have been in aviation industry for almost 2 years and the years seems to end this June.

Aviation is an interesting industry and I can say, being part of the marketing team for Middle East, Africa and South America region is the most exciting stage in my career. The function is like on job MBA training, where I do planning and market analysis - benchmarking, quadrant analysis, data mining and processing, risk analysis, market projection, customer value proposition and mapping business action items to support management strategy.

Besides the "boring" paperwork, numbers and graphs the function has "forced" me to build my character and to adapt to different cultures and people where I need to coordinate with offices in different countries - UAE, Bahrain, Egypt, Oman, Kuwait, Qatar, Mauritius, Turkey, Lebanon, Saudi Arabia, South Africa and Argentina.

For all reasons mentioned above and few I decided to keep, I thank my current employee, management and colleague for their support and chance to be in the international corporate world.
I have learned a lot, I have changed a lot... 2 years in the industry has matured me personally and professionally.


ps/ - Others may have to wait at least 4-5 years after their first degree to have the same experience. I am excited with my next role in Malaysia...

roads...

many want the highways....faster...easier..





Slowdown there, highways are not everywhere...
There are times you will come across...




Bumpy roads...
Bumpy situation...







Please do not stop

But look for these...

Options, Alternatives....


Life is full of choices...
So make one =)

hiccups!

anyone knows why people always put wet tissue on the forehead when baby has hiccups?
doctors, scientists, parenting expert....any solid reason behind this? =)

i have had many hiccups in life...
there were time when i felt the world is not fair, people were discriminating and did not want me to get what i want. true, blaming others are the easiest way to ignore maturity!

there were time i felt i was on top of the world when everything happen as planned. i ignored people who helped, appreciate and thankful were not in the dictionary...

but then, i have changed the way i view life after a good or bad hiccup...

ps/- no wonder babies have hiccups...they are growing! =P
wish i wont stop hiccupping~ eerr i mean, growing
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Bench warmer football players..

How does it feel to be sub-line, warming the wooden bench watching team mates playing on the field...

How does it feel to failed help the team to score just because you are not in the coach's game plan...

I think, any football player will move, even to a smaller club..

Just to continue playing, 90 minutes in every game...

ps/- world cup fever is heating up, i bet span will win this year

off note...

“Bagaimana mencari lelaki yang sesuai untuk dijadikan teman hidup?” tanya Azura kepada rakan-rakannya, memulakan perbincangan pada petang yang amat panas itu. “Ha! Aku teringat nasib kakak aku. Sebelum kahwin teman lelakinya menjanjikan macam-macam. Dua tiga tahun lepas kahwin dah tak nampak batang hidung. Aku tak mahu kahwin, lelaki sekarang tak boleh pakai.” Lisa mengeluh dengan nada benci lelaki. “Ehh! Ada juga jenis yang balik ke rumah, tetapi hanya tonton TV, baca surat khabar dan merungut itu ini. Kalau lelaki macam itu jadi suami, memang lagi bagus tak balik rumah langsung!” Azlin mencelah, menghebatkan lagi analisa mereka tiga sekawan tentang lelaki.

“Issy! Takkan tak ada lelaki yang boleh dipercayai, penyayang, bertanggungjawab dan matang untuk kita jadikan teman hidup, untuk kita jadikan suami?” Azura kehairanan. “Ya, tentu ada. Akan tetapi jumlahnya sedikit dan sukar untuk ditemui. Kalau sekadar lelaki memang ada di sana sini. Namun lelaki yang memiliki ciri-ciri suami umpama yang awak cakap tu, susah nak cari.” Azlin menjelaskan hakikatnya. Lisa terus menyampuk: “Lagipun sambil kita mencari dan memilih, bagaimana kita hendak tahu selepas kahwin nanti dia akan OK, atau merudum kualitinya sebagai suami sekaligus lelaki?”

Saya agak yakin perbincangan atau persoalan di antara tiga sekawan di atas merupakan sesuatu yang lazim – atau setidak-tidaknya pernah – bermain-main di fikiran para pembaca sekalian. Iyya! Dalam rangka kita belajar menambah ilmu, dalam rangka kita beramal sebagai seorang muslimat, dalam rangka kita bercita-cita menjadi individu cemerlang, tentu kita juga merancang untuk mendirikan rumahtangga yang bahagia. Akan tetapi nisbah kebahagiaan rumahtangga mutakhir ini yang lebih condong kepada tidak bahagia dan penceraian menyebabkan ada di antara kita yang merasakan ia satu rancangan yang sukar untuk dicapai.

Namun saya yakin para pembaca sekalian bukanlah orang yang mudah berputus asa. Jangan mengeluh jangan merungut, sebaliknya berusahalah mencari ilmu tentang kehidupan berumahtangga. Ilmu ini bermula sejak awal, sejak langkah-langkah awal mencari pasangan yang sesuai. Berkenaan mencari pasangan ini, Rasulullah s.a.w. telah berpesan: Seorang wanita dinikahi kerana empat sebab: hartanya, keluarganya, kecantikannya dan agamanya. Maka pilihlah kerana agamanya, jika tidak kamu akan rugi. [Shahih al-Bukhari, no: 5090]

Meskipun hadis di atas ditujukan kepada lelaki tentang bagaimana hendak memilih calon isteri, ia juga boleh digunakan oleh wanita tentang bagaimana hendak memilih calon suami. Justeru berdasarkan hadis di atas, ciri yang perlu diberi prioriti ialah kadar dan nilai agama calon suami.

Mengukur Agama Seseorang?Senang dibaca dan senang disebut, tetapi tidak senang untuk dipraktikkan. Bagaimana hendak mengukur agama calon suami bagi menentukan dia benar-benar sesuai? Izinkan saya berkongsi beberapa tips pada kesempatan ini.

Agama calon suami tidak cukup sekadar Islam, tetapi hendaklah merupakan seorang muslim yang baik, yang shalih. Keshalihan tidak diukur dengan ibadah yang lazim umpama solat lima waktu dan puasa sebulan pada bulan Ramadhan sebab itu memang wajib. Namun ia diukur dengan ibadah yang sukar dilakukan, yang jarang-jarang dilakukan, yang dapat memberi isyarat tentang peranan calon apabila bergelar suami kelak.

Ibadah yang saya maksudkan ialah sikap calon suami terhadap ibubapanya, khasnya ibu. Jika anda mahukan suami yang boleh dipercayai, penyayang, bertanggungjawab dan matang, maka perhatikan sikap calon suami anda terhadap ahli keluarganya. Jika beliau merupakan orang yang dipercayai oleh ibubapanya, menyayangi lagi bertanggungjawab menjaga ibubapanya serta matang membuat keputusan yang melibatkan urusan keluarganya, maka semua itu merupakan isyarat yang amat kuat bahawa beliau juga akan menjadi suami yang bagus. Ini kerana berbuat baik kepada ibubapa merupakan ibadah yang amat tinggi nilainya, sekaligus menjadi alat pengukur yang tepat bagi kadar agama seseorang dan hubungannya dengan Allah s.w.t.. Rasulullah s.a.w. menekankan: Keredhaan Allah terletak pada keredhaan ibubapa manakala kemurkaan Allah terletak pada kemurkaan ibubapa. [Shahih Sunan al-Tirmizi, no: 1899] Dalam sebuah hadis lain: Seorang lelaki datang menemui Rasulullah s.a.w. dan bertanya: “Siapakah manusia yang paling berhak untuk aku layan dengan sebaik-baiknya?” Baginda menjawab: “Ibu kamu.” Dia bertanya lagi: “Kemudian siapa?” Baginda menjawab: “Ibu kamu.” Dia bertanya lagi: “Kemudian siapa?” Baginda menjawab: “Ibu kamu.” Dia bertanya lagi: “Kemudian siapa?” Baginda menjawab: “Ayah kamu.”[Shahih al-Bukhari, no: 5971]

Justeru di antara ibu dan bapa, calon suami hendaklah mengutamakan ibunya. Jika calon suami prihatin kepada ibunya, sentiasa sedia membantu ibunya, kerap berhubung dengan ibunya dan lazim mengeluarkan belanja untuk ibunya, bererti dia seorang anak yang shalih. Jika calon suami bersikap demikian terhadap ibunya, maka ia merupakan petanda yang besar bahawa beliau juga akan bersikap demikian kepada bakal isterinya.

Sebaliknya jika calon suami mengabaikan ibubapa, masih mengharapkan penjagaan ibubapa, kerap menderhakai mereka, maka dia seorang yang memiliki kadar agama yang rendah. Lebih buruk jika calon suami berani meninggikan suara kepada ibu tetapi tidak kepada ayah, bererti dia manusia yang memandang remeh kepada wanita. Lelaki seperti ini tidak patut dijadikan calon suami kerana terdapat kemungkinan yang amat besar dia juga akan bersikap seumpama terhadap bakal isteri dan keluarganya.

Mengukur Agama Sendiri.

Dalam rangka anda mengukur agama bakal suami, jangan lupa untuk mengukur agama diri sendiri. Di samping menjaga amal ibadah yang lazim umpama solat, puasa, membaca al-Qur’an, menutup aurat dan membatas interaksi dengan yang lelaki bukan mahram, jagalah juga hubungan anda dengan ibubapa. Berbuat baiklah kepada mereka, khasnya ibu. Berbuat baik bukan semata-mata untuk lulus penilaian calon suami tetapi sebagai ibadah kepada Allah s.w.t.


ps/ - got this from fatin, and sharing on my blog with all =)

10,000

if you just hopped in and reading the entry, you are helping me to reach 10,000 hits! yes!
10,000 hits ***

ps/- maybe i should have my own fan club, ***dreaming!
ps/- the baby is not mine =P

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**out of ideas