10,000

if you just hopped in and reading the entry, you are helping me to reach 10,000 hits! yes!
10,000 hits ***

ps/- maybe i should have my own fan club, ***dreaming!
ps/- the baby is not mine =P

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**out of ideas

hi hi hi

the jack fruit story

it was a lovely day, a day full with malaysian food in dubai.

a. my boss bought butter scooth (wrong spelling, i know) for the morning's breakfast.
b. i bought manggo sweet and prawn roll for my colleague
c. the airport manager bought the jack fruit

and from there something funny happened...

the office boy as always has the duty to distribute food to all, and the last jack fruit came into the picture.

he gave to all, from the bosses and kulis...and after the round end, the office boy distrbute the boiled jack fruit seeds.

he offered to kak pah and me, she skipped and i took one...as i was about to put the seed into my mouth i looked at kak pah and asked....

"is this the seed from the eaten jack fruit?"

and kak pah just smiled and said " yes, but i dont know whose seed that you just ate..."

ps/ - maybe this is one of the team building activity...

from newspaper.... JOKE

There was a young couple who loved each other and planned to get married.They are scared to inform their parents thinking they might object their wishand decided to commit suicide.

Before committing suicide, they wrote a note explaining why they make the decision and applogize for the bold action.

And so, the next day the couple was found dead.

Their parents were shocked and went to the hospital to confirm the body of their children and read the notes left.

Suddenly they cried and the female's parents said "if only they could tell usand wait, they could be husband and wife..."

OK OK, it was not a joke from the way i write but

assumption is mother of srew up, and i think this is a joke

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i am back from the office from a week meeting in Kuala Lumpur.

last night flight from Kuala Lumpur to Dubai was delayed because a passenger took seat that was not hers and arguement took place.

the situation was fast recovered by the world's best cabin crew by diplomatically negotiate and reorganise passenger's seating.

well done, world's best cabin crew! ngeh!

ps/ - oohh i was the passenger on seat 31E =) haha

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i made a friend who reads mine blog anonymously
to the stranger, my schedule was really tight..

maybe we can meet up in july..
perhaps for a cup of coffee

ohh ohh,
i recomend you to proceed with your plan to come to dubai

leave me message date your planned date..
and i take my remaining annual leave..

urgh, im melting

the whole team had dinner hosted by concorde shah alam, it was buffet and i like food they have. now, the whole entry will be boring if i be writting about food and time the whole team had after a very tense meeting. So, i be writting about a girl who was the waitress at the restaurant. i do not know her, but one thing i cant forget is her smile with cute dimples.

gosh, for sure i was melting just to see her smile** thats it.

reflecting to the **instant crush i had, i just focus to one of the 4 principles to find a wife which is beauty. if im just chasing and choose a girl purely on beauty, i might end up with nobody as beauty is very subjective.

ps/- i do not lie, she is cute!

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i am thinking out loud to get engaged end of this year, IF i got a job in Malaysia.

Denied boarding +

Once forgotten, taken for granted

"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever?"

Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master..."

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45 days to go...

Tiktok tiktok

Ps/ - is suppose to be on a 8hours flight to KUL for an interview. The company has bought ticket but had to decline due to work commitment here...hurmm maybe next time =)

typical

Nahh, not a racist entry, read through and you understand

I am a friend to many ladies, married, single, once married and others and to my surprise they “talk” about man in my presence. Its either they accept me as their ears (listening terminal) or they think I’m a gay (which is not true!) and not to my surprise I always hear the “typical malay guy” sentence.

Most of them generalize “typical malay guy” to be possessive, indecisive, and have I am always right attitude in relationship.

To my immature experience the generalization was being portrayed because:

1. They ladies have not experience be in relationship with other nationals or race and generalise their partner to be “typical malay guy”.

2. Their assumption come from “typical malay girl” who will not satisfy no to matter what the “typical malay guy” does.

3. Influenced by acted romance in Hollywood and Bollywood screens.

But, few points I must agree with the “typical malay guy” syndrome, as we intend to:

1. Control our partner because we are too passionate with our partner

2. Think that other “typical malay guy” will snatch her away

3. Take things for granted

So to all “typical malay guy” and “typical malay girl” lets try to improve and accept each other, the way they are.

Cheers,

Adik, for you! =P

long distance relationship

From single's point of view...


Distance is always see as taboo in relationship, mostly for youngster like me who has trust and truthful issue. Insecurity and external noise are 2 famous break up reasons for distance couples. I feel and understand how a person feels to be apart from loved one but my life in Dubai has opened a small snapshot about distance relationship for expats who are working abroad just to support family back home.

Majority populations in Dubai are from the South Asia countries like Pakistan, India and Philippines and most of them are single in Dubai. They scarify time with family to be away and earn a bit more and provide better living in own country.

However, not to ignore a bunch of people who get excited with new culture and forgets promises made before landed into the land of “dream”. Irony, expats from India and Pakistan are mostly male and from Philippines are female and because of the unique default match making condition, we can see “mix” marriage.

See, distance relationship is hard, no doubt but once a couple has gone through a distance relationship, they can manage their marriage no matter how the situation will be, God’s will..
So to long distance couple out there, trust your partner, ignore extra noise from other guys and girls.. write to each other, share a blog, emails, facebooking…well, just a suggestion

Someone actually told me that marriage is not merely on love, it is more on partnership… And I started to believe that

Ps/ - Adamaya episode 16 and 17, umrph

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Prove me wrong,
Prove me wrong that I am not arrogant or prove me wrong I did no sin
Prove me wrong that sun rises every morning and sets every evening
Prove me wrong that ocean as an end, prove me wrong that Santa does not exist
Just prove me wrong when I said

I did not know how you feel and better for us to be friends

Ps/ - They have their say and I cant stop to listen

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Adik,
Dont be selfish =)

in bahasa

sesungguhnya bahasa ibunda itu indah,
dan kerana itu kali ini ia dalam bahasa kita....

logikal tiada ruang dalam perhubungan
kerana logikal gagal, di tawan rasa
maka tiadalah pertimbangan
dan semua yang berlaku di luar kawalan

satu pagi tertanya
apa lagi yang di kejar
apa yang di kendung
mampukah pertahankan logika
dalam semua situasi

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Officially, Ad hanyalah ada seorang adik perempuan...muhahaha tapi saja lah kan gatal nak kumpul adik perempuan lagi....so gambar di atas adalah adik-adik perempuan tak rasmi...hahaha
owh owh 2 dah berpunya, sorang je solo...

nak detail boleh tinggalkan komen...

hahahahaha, kalau yall baca ni, abg ad wat free promotion...nanti semua akan berterima kasih juga!!

hahaha

worth sharing

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican fishing village. A tourist complimented the local fishermen on the quality of their fish and asked how long it took him to catch them. "Not very long." they answered in unison. "Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?" The fishermen explained that their small catches were sufficient to meet their needs and those of their families. "But what do you do with the rest of your time?" "We sleep late, fish a little, play with our children, and take siestas with our wives. In the evenings, we go into the village to see our friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar, and sing a few songs. We have a full life. The tourist interrupted, "I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you! You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat." "And after that?" "With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers. Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico Cit y , Los Angeles , or even New York City ! [ From there you can direct your huge new enterprise." "How long would that take?" <> "Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years." replied the tourist. "And after that?" "Afterwards? Well my friend, that's when it gets really interesting, " answered the tourist, laughing. "When your business gets really big, you can start buying and selling stocks and make millions!" "Millions? Really? And after that?" asked the fishermen. "After that you'll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends." "With all due respect sir, but that's exactly what we are doing now. So what's the point wasting twenty-five years?" asked the Mexicans. And the moral of this story is: Know where you're going in life.... you may already be there!!

adamaya

i am following adamaya series on youtube, and the only reason i can wait until the video to complete downloading is the actress... i like actor/actress who has spontaneous facial expression, real expression even though they were being filmed...

i am now at episode 4, part1.. the series has taught me that female can make themselves to learn to love someone... =)

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old varsity

After a week long survive (hahaha right!!) with fastfood, burgers, fried chicken, cheese and soda, i finally have the "i had enough junk food and my body cant take anymore" symptom... i had a bad headache, and exhausted..

Guess, this is what I got for excuses i gave not to exercise...

Someone actually suggested to have a healthy lifestyle...define that please... =P hahaha

Short entry for now... =)

Friends

There are no Joey, Rachel, Monica, Phoebe, Chandler and Ross... Phewh!
But there were Addie, Ravin, Remi, Leman, Fatin, Akmar, Adrena, Atirah, Iza and Sarah, ten people who started their young adult chapter, lived independently away from home, away from parents...

Addie, Ravin and Leman was my schoolmates back in EC, Johor Bahru. I did not know they were in the same University until we met on the registration day.
Addie was my housemate during my Alpha year (Pre-U)... A friend who always there to wake me up for Subuh prayers and remind me all 5 prayers time... thank you bro!
I still remember the day we celebrated Ravin's birthday... It was the best birthday prank mastermind by me with the help from Addie and Atirah... Ravin was showered with 2kgs of flour, and a piece of chocolate cake. Cool!
Leman was living in his own world...Hahaha, my generalisation that Engineering students are boring came from him...Hahaha

Remi was known for his art talent with montage, video clips and it knowledge. He was one of the committee member to the first program I was involved as MMU student, the program anak angkat in Pontian, Johor Bahru. It end up, Addie, Remi and myself were siblings angkat, anak angkat to the penghulu kampung...

Atirah, Iza and Sarah were housemates....Their house was 2 houses away from mine...
Atirah was my bestfriend, enemy, partner in crime, study partner and...She is good in calculation and numbers which I was not at that time...so she helped me a lot with my maths, graphs, formulas...Gosh! Now I wonder how you can tolerate and comprise with me for 4 torturing years... Hahaha

Sarah is from Terengganu.. She is in Korea with beloved husband...I did not go to the weddings, just a phone call wished her "Selamat pengantin baru"...

Iza is missing in action~ huhuhu where are you? hello?

Adrena, Akmar, Fatin are 3 cheerful, "poyo", sporting and intelligent young ladies...Adrena is the entertainer with her spontaneous character. Akmar is the strict and strong eldest sister and Fatin is the perempuan melayu terakhir lady, mother like..Hahahaha

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somethin bout the way
somethin bout the way you look
in my eyes
you make everything so damn easy
so easy that i dont got to worry bout a thing

and baby when we touch
all i can see is the image of us
sitting by the ocean
just before the dusk
sippin on a juice box and
sand between our toes

this is the part when we say were in love
and the part where we have our first kiss
but this ain't a movie
i know you cant come with me
you got your life
he better be treatin you right

just tell me you dont love me
tell me you dont feel the same way that i do
tell me i dont make you smile
like i do when you walk in the room
you're so hard to let go

this is the part when we say were in love
and the part where we say it's forever
but this ain't a fantasy
i know you can't come with me
you got your life
he better be treatin you right

this hurts so much to know that you're
with someone else when you should be w me
its just hard to accept that i cant be around
he better be treatin you good
i'm no einstein but i know a sign
when i see one
and i know you love me too

its the hardest thing

i tried to be classic,
but i dont like black and white pictures
i tried to be contemporary,
i cant match colours like they do
i tried to be jazzy,
seems, notes aren’t friendly like we think

i tried to be me,
simply me...
and the world revolve around
now i know,

so i stop the classico adlil
or contemporary Zen
no, not jazz...
but just me..

=)

i am emotionally exhausted...

a. i have successfully 'goreng' in the interview... the interviewers didnt drill me that much but provoked with many questions at a time..hahaha lucky i controlled the situation...provocation failed there =)

b. im tired to play any game...lets see it through....just

c. im tired to be in a maze, long enough till its suffocate

d. can i be invisible, so you dont see me here?

p/s- looking foward to settle in Malaysia...hahaha

go away!

the worst thing to happen before any interview is to feel intimidated and feel not good enough for the post...

urghh! i thought i have pass that stage but i was wrong...

here goes....

p/s - hany terima kasih memilihkan warna tie..hahaha

my dad saved me

its not secret anymore that i went out with a lot of girls, just a normal hangout to cinema, coffee shop, shopping malls, nothing less nothing more...

and i always ask one question to them

will you go out with me, if i didnt decide to work overseas and stayed at the stage i was before...

most of them, just smile and remain silent...

so is it a yes or no? =)

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i have an interview tomorrow, hopefully i'll get it..

my first serious interview...for a serious post...

i informed my dad about the interview and he sees its a good oppurtunity to be a corporate man...hurrmm so do i need to change and be more sophisticated...

hope not, i prefer simple....like mamak stall not starbucks~

for this reason, i thanked my dad who saved my career...hahaha no wonder he is the HR Director in his company....

thank you ayah!

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what it takes to be with you?

its complicated

I watched its complicated, unplanned but it was pleasant.

The movie has few points to ponder:
a. complicated relationship needs relieve time without other's influence
b. however, decision may effects others
c. family members usually has a say in almost asia families, but not the westerners
d. its not always good idea to go back to ex
e. ex couples, usually has the same feelings even after the break ups

p/s - what do you want?

Always...

For the way you changed my plans
For being the perfect distraction
For the way you took the idea that I have
Of everything that I wanted to have
And made me see there was something missing...

For the ending of my first begin
And for the rare and unexpected friend
For the way you're something that I'd never choose
But at the same time, something I don't wanna lose
And never wanna be without ever again

p/s- how many times you realise you miss someone after the person is gone..

translator or weather man

Translator to Weather Man
One try to translate language from his own kind
The other try to communicate with mother nature.

Who has a tougher task, the translator or the weather man?

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Sand Storm, Rain Drop

Its like lining of gold falls from above
Cause fake illusion in life,
Proud with stall of glasses and concrete or steel horse that runs

Can I pause.
Im waiting raindrops